parents keep away from from childrenif you want them to attain importance in life!

Parents not to influence your children?s life after all they have their own agenda, if parents want their children to be very bright in their own pursuits
By Dr. G. Balakrishnan
?Children? Khalil Gibran thought:
?They are sons and daughters of
Life?s longing for itself.
They come through you,
But not from you.
And though they are with you yet they
Belong not to you.
You may give them your love,
But not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not,
Their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house
Of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not
Even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek
Not to make them like you.?




This is the thought line ? See how it is true, after all a child can just out perform the parent, but it is rare parent can let go and allow him to soar. It is a storm in the cup. This is wee seen the world over. So God is in ever thing. How can you call the child is my own, after all you are not some one one?s replica.
So a child is usually better looking, taller, better adapted to the environs; he is also more likely to understand instinctively the need of the times.

I will cite here some examples from Infosys top founder executives families - Don?t be surprised. This is to say what is the point you save for your children a lot wealth so too for your grandchildren, when you know tastes differ among your children but that is happening with ever parent and grand parent, after all your guidance is okay for some time and there after child flies away like a bird chirping its own sounds of music of life.
Narayana Murthy?s , chief Mentor of Infosys, daughter Akshata is getting ready to launch an eponymously branded Clothing Line She says she will have an outfit that will employ some 40 plus persons. She believes in Social activism. She married a third generation British Indian, her class mate at Stanford Rishi Sunaq.
His son is pursuing a doctoral program in Computer Science.
Shibulal?s Sruti is launching a Mediterranean Grill at Bangalore. So too this girl feels like Akshata by her interest areas.
This means most of them evidence the fact Making money doesn?t seem to drive them; they seem very highly conscious about honoring their inheritance. What keeps them ticking is the idea of empowering others through employment opportunities.
That is when you travel to learn you learn new things.
See Mahesh Bhat?s son Rahul Bhatt by his Christian first wife Kiran ( known as Loraine Bright), now Mahesh is living with second wife actor Soni Razdan ( a Muslim fromKashmir). Rahul according to his father Mahesh says, that Rahul is like him a suffers from dysplexia and he could not clear his high school and Rahul is a fitness instructor, recently allegations splashed, in press that he entertained Headley a terrorist but this Rahul is supposed to be unnecessarily implicated by the police as Rahul and another fitness instructor, at the advice of
Mahesh Bhatt, these boys reported to the Mumbai police,to prove themselves as patriots.

I brought this film director areas of work did not attract his son. That is the point. Even when parents separate, the children get a rude jolt in life as Rahul had. And yet his cup of tea is not films direction or production.

You could have seen Uddhav Thackeray is not cut for politics while his father Bal Thackeray forced him . So parents should not dictate their children to do this and that, after all children nurture different goal in their life. That is what Kahlid Gibran says in his thought lines.

Parents be warned do not decide what your children should do and if you understand this thought line, naturally you will not do all things what you do today and you can live a peaceful life and make others to live peacefully!(Ends)